Anonymous said: I need help! I'm in 8th grade (middle school) and I have a crush on a 10th grader (high school). I never see him ever unless it's at a school football game or something like that. He also has a girlfriend who is sorta my friend, but I don't really talk to her. We were both on the school cheer team though. How do I get in contact with him and make him like me?
You can’t force someone to like you. It’s something that has to happen naturally. If it’s forced, it will never work out.
Also, if he has a girlfriend, he’s not an option. In order for him to be with you he would either have to cheat on his girlfriend or leave his girlfriend for you. And if he’s willing to do either of those things, he’s not a guy you want to be with because that means he would be willing to do those things to you too.
The best advice I can give you is to move on from him. Maybe somewhere down the road you’ll both be single and able to see each other more often, but until that time you should try to find someone else or just focus on yourself. If you’re in 8th grade you’re either 13 or 14, right? You’ve got plenty of time to worry about boys in the future. Either way, just remember that forcing a guy to like you is never a good thing, and nether is going after someone who’s in a relationship. Both of those scenarios will end badly.